“So you want to do something in the church,” the Pastor said.
“Yes, sir!” the man answered.
“What do you think you want to do?”
“I don’t know. What do you have?”
“We could use some help in the youth department.”
“Hmm. Teenagers are not really my thing.”
“Okay, we need people to help with cleanup after Wednesday night suppers.”
“Oh. Well, I was thinking of something . . . more . . . I guess, more important.”
“Well, tell me what you have in mind then.”
“I want to be a deacon – you know, hand out the bulletins and take up the offering.”
“Being a deacon is much more than that, it’s a calling from God. Deacons are spiritual leaders in the church.”
“Yes! I can do that – I can be a leader. Go call the rest of the guys to come lay hands on me!”
I may have embellished this conversation just a bit, but the truth is, a lot of people want to be leaders in the church. But leadership is not something to be taken on a whim; it is a holy responsibility and should be approached with reverence – and a calling. The author of Hebrews addressed “the laying on of hands,” as part of the ”elementary teachings” of the faith (6:2). This is a practice within the church of conferring a spiritual office on someone who has proven their call to leadership, usually as a pastor, elder, deacon, or other position of ministry. It expresses the gravity of the role they are assuming in the church.
Paul warned Timothy to be careful in selecting leaders for the church in Ephesus. He counseled him not to appoint out of partiality or favoritism then added, “Do not be hasty in the laying on of hands,” (1 Timothy 5:21-22). Church leadership should never be handed out as favors and candidates for church leadership must prove their calling and fitness for service. You’ve probably seen the damage that can result from ungodly leaders – they can destroy a church and people’s lives.
What should we look for in a leader? The Bible gives us a great example in Acts 6 through Stephen who was “full of faith and of the Holy Spirit” (v. 5), “full of God’s grace and power” (v. 8), and spiritual wisdom (v. 10). He knew the Scriptures well (I once had a deacon ask me where in the Bible is the story of the Little Drummer Boy). Stephen died defending the name of Christ. That’s a man who is called to serve the church. Beloved, we must be wise in choosing leaders and wise in whom we follow, lest they lead us right to the gates of hell.